How to Cope with Separation Anxiety in King Charles Spaniels

There are few more heart-warming sights than your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel bounding toward you after a long day. These affectionate companions thrive on close human bonds, so separation anxiety can be particularly challenging for this breed.

Understanding separation anxiety in Cavalier King Charles Spaniels is essential for providing the right care and support to your beloved pet.

Why Does My Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Have Separation Anxiety?

Cavaliers are known for their "velcro dog" nature, meaning they are strongly attached and prefer to be near their owners at all times. This pack mentality means that being left alone can trigger fear and distress.¹ Environmental changes, sudden routine shifts, or underlying pain conditions like syringomyelia can worsen anxiety symptoms.

Typical signs include excessive barking or howling, destructive behaviour like chewing doors or furniture, pacing, restlessness, or attempts to escape. Some dogs may even soil the house despite previous training.

Is Separation Anxiety Dangerous?

Yes, it can be. An anxious dog can cause damage to your home and potentially harm themselves trying to escape. Noise caused by barking may upset neighbours, and ongoing stress can lead to health issues like loss of appetite or depression.

Can Separation Anxiety Be Cured?

While there is no instant cure, separation anxiety in Cavaliers can be managed and significantly reduced with patience, consistent training, and building trust. Avoid punishment as it often exacerbates fear and anxiety.

Step-by-Step: How to Reduce Separation Anxiety in Your Cavalier

1. Gradual Desensitisation

Start by leaving your dog alone for very short periods, just seconds at first. Gradually increase the duration over weeks. Reward calm behaviour upon your return to help build a positive association.

2. Create a Positive Environment

• Set up a comfortable, safe space with bedding and favourite toys.
• Use puzzle feeders or treat-dispensing toys for mental stimulation.
• Leave background noise like a radio or TV on to ease silence.

3. Establish a Predictable Routine

Maitain consistent daily schedules for walks, feeding, and departures to reduce stress caused by uncertainty.

4. Keep Departures and Arrivals Low-Key

Avoid emotional farewells or excited greetings, as these can increase anxiety. Remain calm and low-key to signal that departures and returns are normal events.

5. Use Desensitisation to Departure Cues

Randomise activities like picking up your keys or putting on your coat without leaving, so these don’t become anxiety triggers over time.

6. Exercise and Socialisation

Provide regular physical activity to reduce general anxiety and socialise your dog appropriately to build confidence.

7. Get Professional Help When Needed

If anxiety symptoms persist or worsen, consulting a qualified Animal Behaviour and Training Council (ABTC) registered behaviourist or your vet can provide further guidance. In severe cases, medication might be essential to improve your dog's wellbeing.

Keeping Your Cavalier Healthy and Happy

Separation anxiety can be stressful for both you and your dog, but with understanding and consistent effort, you can improve your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s quality of life. Always monitor their behaviour and health, and never hesitate to seek expert advice.

Remember, Cavaliers are loving, sociable dogs who thrive with company, so try to ensure they are not left alone for long periods. Responsible breeding and early socialisation also help reduce anxiety risks.