If you own a small dog, such as a Chihuahua puppy or any other petite breed, being able to pick them up comfortably and safely is important for vet visits, grooming, or navigating rough terrain. However, some dogs find being lifted stressful or even frightening.
This guide explains why dogs may dislike being picked up and offers step-by-step methods to build your dog's tolerance and make lifting a positive experience. Patience, kindness, and correct technique are essential for success.
Dogs may refuse to be picked up due to pain from injury or health issues, lack of early handling experience, negative past incidents, or annoyance when lifting interrupts their activities.
If your dog's reluctance to be lifted is new, visit your vet to rule out medical causes such as arthritis or spinal problems. Understanding the cause helps you tailor your approach effectively.
Always lift small dogs by supporting both their chest and hindquarters to make them feel secure. Hold them close to your body but gently, never grab by the collar, scruff, or limbs.
Try to lift steadily but without sudden movements. This reduces discomfort or fear and helps avoid pain or injury.
Forcing your dog to stay lifted if they struggle can increase fear and resistance. Instead, look for calm, relaxed moments to reward and gradually extend the time spent being held.
Short, calm sessions focused on positive reinforcement build trust faster than long, stressful lifts.
Offer treats or favourite toys during lifting to redirect attention and make the experience enjoyable. This association is key to changing negative perceptions.
If you often pick up your dog to stop unwanted behaviour (e.g., chasing something or rough play), pair the lift with an alternative reward or fun toy to avoid associating being picked up with punishment or ending play.
For dogs fearful of handling or with mobility issues, use a blanket wrap (sometimes called a "dog taco wrap") to gently scoop them up, avoiding pressure on limbs and creating a secure feeling.
If pain is suspected, consult your vet for diagnosis and management to alleviate the problem before retraining handling.
Sometimes, teaching your dog to climb onto safe elevated places on request can be a practical alternative to lifting, especially for dogs that remain fearful or uncomfortable.
This allows you to keep your pet safe and out of harm's way without causing stress.
Quick Answer: Your dog might dislike being picked up due to underlying pain, lack of handling habituation, previous negative experiences, or because lifting interrupts fun activities.
Dogs naturally want to feel safe and secure. Handling feels unnatural or threatening unless they are properly accustomed to it from an early age. Any discomfort or fear can cause growling or snapping when lifted.
Quick Answer: Use gradual desensitisation with positive reinforcement by rewarding calm behaviour during short, gentle lifts, paired with treats and a verbal cue to build comfort and trust.
Start by touching and pretending to lift without actual lifting, reward calmness, then progressively lift for increasing durations while continuously praising your dog. Keep sessions short, positive, and consistent, never forcing your dog.
Helping a dog that won’t tolerate being picked up improve involves understanding the cause of their reluctance and using gentle, positive, step-by-step training methods to build comfort. Always lift properly, keep sessions short, reward calm behaviour, and avoid forcing. If health issues are suspected, seek veterinary advice promptly.
With time, patience and kindness you can turn lifting into a stress-free experience that benefits both you and your dog, making vet visits, grooming, and other scenarios easier and safer.