How to Retrain a Dog That Doesn’t Like Other Dogs

Dogs are naturally social creatures, evolved from wild pack animals, where companionship and socialisation within the group are vital. Properly socialised dogs often accept and enjoy the presence of others. However, some dogs, particularly those from breeds bred for solitary work like guarding or herding, may show discomfort or aggression towards other dogs due to insufficient socialisation or negative past experiences.

If your dog doesn’t get on well with others, there’s hope. Gentle retraining can help your pet build confidence and positive associations, enabling calmer interactions. This guide outlines practical steps for retraining a dog uncomfortable with other dogs.

1. Understand Your Dog’s Triggers

Begin by carefully observing when and why your dog reacts negatively. Ask yourself:

• Does your dog react only to specific breeds, sizes, or genders?
• Is your dog calmer off the lead compared to when restrained?
• What specific situations or proximities trigger anxiety or aggression?

Understanding these triggers allows you to tailor training sessions around your dog’s comfort and avoid overwhelming experiences.

2. Avoid Triggering Situations Initially

Start by keeping your dog away from stressful scenarios. Avoid crowded dog parks, busy walking routes with frequent dog encounters, and times when streets are full of dogs to reduce stress.

Retraining begins best in calm, controlled environments—low-pressure spaces where your dog can feel secure and relaxed.

3. Use Controlled, Positive Socialisation Experiences

Arrange meetings with one calm, well-socialised dog belonging to a trusted friend or experienced owner. The helper’s dog should be confident and non-aggressive, as pairing two anxious or reactive dogs can worsen behaviours.

Meet in a quiet, open area and allow your dog to settle before introducing the other dog at a safe distance. Gradually decrease this distance according to your dog’s comfort, using treats and praise to reward calm, positive attention.

4. Teach Focus and Attention Commands

Train your dog to focus on you with commands like "Watch me" or "Look here." This redirects attention from other dogs and helps your dog stay calm during encounters. Reward consistent focus with treats and affection.

5. Use Positive Reinforcement to Build New Associations

When your dog sees another dog at a safe distance and remains calm, reward with high-value treats or play. Consistent positive reinforcement helps reframe other dogs as predictors of good things rather than threats.

6. Progress Slowly and Avoid Pushing Your Dog

Retraining takes patience. If your dog shows signs of stress or aggression, calmly increase distance and try a gentler approach next time. Never force interactions — allowing your dog to succeed at their own pace strengthens trust and progress.

7. Encourage Off-Lead Socialisation When Ready

Once your dog accepts another dog calmly on lead at close distances, arrange a supervised off-lead introduction in a safe, enclosed space. Allow the dogs to greet and interact naturally. Be ready to intervene gently if aggression appears, but let them work out their feelings in a controlled way.

Repeated positive encounters with diverse dogs can help your dog gradually become more comfortable in various situations.

Promoting Responsible Ownership

Remember, some dogs may never be fully social with all dogs, and that’s okay. Always prioritise your dog’s wellbeing and safety, avoiding stressful situations they’re unprepared for. If behavioural issues persist, consult a professional trainer or behaviourist specialised in canine social problems.

Patience, empathy, and consistent positive training lead most dogs to better behaviour and calmer, happier social interactions over time.

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