Six commonly misinterpreted submissive signals dogs use

Dogs don’t speak our language, either verbally or through body language, which often leads to misunderstandings of their behaviour. Humans tend to project human emotions onto canine actions, but this can cause confusion and missed cues in dog communication.

Understanding your dog's submissive signals correctly helps build a trusting relationship and prevents misinterpretations that could cause stress for both of you. This article explores six commonly misinterpreted submissive signals your dog uses and explains their real meanings.

Avoiding eye contact

Unlike humans, where avoiding eye contact might suggest dishonesty or evasion, when a dog avoids eye contact, it is a respectful gesture signalling submission or deference. By not staring directly at a person or another dog, your dog is showing it recognises the other's authority and means no harm.

Showing the belly

When a dog rolls onto its back and shows its belly, many see it as an invitation for a belly rub. While some dogs may enjoy this, the action primarily signals submission. Your dog is exposing its most vulnerable areas – the belly and throat – as a way of communicating trust and accepting your leadership, signalling that it is not a threat.

Licking their lips

Lip licking in dogs is often misunderstood as a sign of hunger or interest in food. However, lip licking is frequently a calming signal dogs use during stressful or tense situations to appease others and reduce conflict. Dogs might use this signal with both humans and other dogs when trying to create a friendly, non-threatening environment.

Showing the teeth

A relaxed, slightly open mouth showing teeth can be a peaceful, submissive gesture used to avoid conflict or escalate calmness, especially during play or greetings. This is very different from a snarl, which shows bared gums and tense lips, indicating aggression or fear. Learning to distinguish these can help you better understand your dog's mood and intentions.

Tucking the tail in

A dog that tucks its tail closely to the body or holds it low is signalling anxiety, fear or submission. This posture makes the dog appear smaller and less threatening, often a way to withdraw from a stressful or intimidating situation. A slow wag of a tucked tail can sometimes indicate nervousness rather than happiness.

Turning away when addressed

If your dog turns its head or body away when you give a command or a firm word, it might feel intimidated rather than being defiant. This turning away is a submissive signal aimed to reduce tension and avoid conflict, not ignoring or disrespect as often assumed. Building your dog's confidence and strengthening your bond can help them respond more positively to training and commands.

Recognising these subtle signs of submission is key to supporting your dog's emotional well-being and strengthening your communication. By responding to your dog with empathy and patience, you reinforce trust and create a positive environment for training and everyday interactions.

Understanding canine body language helps avoid common misinterpretations and promotes responsible, compassionate pet ownership.