Nervousness in dogs manifests as apprehension when they anticipate an unknown threat or fearful situation. This common behaviour can be gently overcome with consistent care, patience and positive reinforcement, enabling your dog to lead a happy, well-socialised life.
First, observe your dog's nervous signs, such as tail tucked, ears pulled back, and restless behaviour. Avoid over-coddling, as this might reinforce fear. Instead, plan gradual exposures to social stimuli at a comfortable distance where the dog feels secure. For example, take your dog to a quiet park or from inside a car where it can observe other dogs safely.
If your dog exhibits fear or aggression if other dogs come too close, immediately increase the distance and avoid confrontation. If nervousness extends to reluctance being outside, consult your vet to rule out anxiety disorders like agoraphobia. Never force social interactions; let your dog approach at its own pace, ensuring the experience remains positive.
Continue attending training classes and buddy walks regularly, rewarding calm behaviour and increasing social exposure stepwise. Avoid cooing or overly babying your dog, which can impede progress. With patience and perseverance, many nervous dogs learn to engage confidently with others.
Socialising a nervous dog is a gradual, patient journey that blends careful planning, positive reinforcement, and consistent exposure at the dog's comfort level. By following these steps and working closely with trainers and vets, your dog can overcome nervousness to enjoy a fulfilling social life.
For puppies or other dogs needing a calm companion for social walks or training, consider finding puppies or gentle adult dogs from reputable breeders to provide a positive influence.