Bringing home a new puppy can be an incredibly enriching experience for your family, particularly for your children. Teaching them how to care for a puppy helps instil empathy and responsibility early on. However, it’s crucial to supervise interactions closely and ensure children understand why teasing or rough play is harmful to your pup’s wellbeing.
Teasing your puppy disrupts their social development and can cause lasting emotional damage. Puppies are in a sensitive stage where experiences with people form the foundation of their understanding of humans and their behaviour for life. Negative or rough handling can make a puppy fearful, shy, or even aggressive, impacting their happiness and your family’s safety.
Between three and twelve weeks old, puppies learn essential social behaviours and boundaries. At this vulnerable age, they cannot defend themselves or leave an uncomfortable situation. Constant teasing or bullying during this time can severely influence their perception of people, often teaching them that humans are threats, which is difficult to reverse later in life.
These early experiences highlight the importance of gentle, positive interactions to foster confidence and trust in your pup.
Puppies unable to escape teasing may respond with growling, snarling, or biting as defensive mechanisms. Although these responses may seem harmless when the puppy is small, as they mature, these behaviours can develop into serious aggression.
A puppy that dreads being approached, particularly by children, may become protective or fearful, potentially biting to warn off an interaction. Teaching children not to encourage biting or rough play, like grabbing feet or hands, is essential to prevent undesirable behaviours.
Any painful or uncomfortable stimulus can cause fear in puppies. A stressed puppy may become anxious, avoid human contact, or display stress-related behaviours such as obsessive grooming or inappropriate toileting. Chronic stress also weakens their immune system, further impacting health.
Understanding this helps parents appreciate why puppies need calm, respectful environments and positive socialisation.
Introduce your puppy to your children gradually and always supervise their interactions until you’re confident that your children understand how to behave around dogs. Never leave young children unsupervised with a puppy.
Explain why teasing or rough handling is harmful; framing the puppy as a living, feeling being rather than a toy helps children develop kindness and respect. Involve them in caring for the puppy as this encourages gentle behaviour and builds a positive human-animal bond.
By fostering loving and patient relationships, you help your puppy grow into a well-adjusted, trusting adult dog.
For families looking to find a new puppy, always consider reputable breeders or puppies for sale through trusted channels to ensure the best health and temperament outcomes.